Thirtieth Sunday in Ordinary Time Year A
The Pharisees come to the Lord with a question that sounds pious but is really a test: “Master, which is the greatest commandment of the Law?” This was not a genuine question born out of sincere curiosity. In fact, it is quite likely they know the answer. The truth is that they wanted to catch Him in a debate about priorities—which duty ranks highest, which love comes first. Our Lord answers without hesitation, and His answer holds the whole Law and the Prophets together in two sentences that can never be separated and which every Christian should know by heart: “You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the greatest and the first commandment. The second resembles it: You must love your neighbour as yourself.”
Notice the order. Notice the force of that word “resemble”, or in some translations, “like.” The second is not an optional add-on, nor is it a softer version of the first. It resembles the first, it is like the first—because it draws its very life from the first. Any love for neighbour that is not rooted in love for God is no longer the love Jesus commands. It may look generous, it may feel warm, it may even do a great deal of good on the surface—but it is not Gospel love. But one thing is clear - the two parts of the commandment are inseparable, although they sometime seem to pull us in opposite directions.
There is a real tension here, and we must not pretend otherwise. On the one hand, we can become so absorbed in “loving God” or think that we are doing so, that we grow cold toward the people He places in our path—the stranger, the widow, the orphan, the one who inconveniences us. In fact, our Lord tells us that “if we have done this to the least of the brethren, we have done this to Him.” But there is more. The first reading from Exodus is blunt about the consequence of our indifference: the Lord hears the cry of the oppressed, and His anger flares against those who claim to belong to Him while crushing the vulnerable. You cannot love God and treat your neighbour as disposable. Remember what St John tells us: “Anyone who says they love God but hates their brother or sister is a liar” (1 John 4:20).
On the other hand—and this is the subtler danger in our time—we can become so absorbed in “loving neighbour” that God quietly drops out of the picture. We start to think that being a decent person, a helpful person, a socially conscious person is enough. We reduce the second commandment to a programme of social justice or altruism: do good, be kind, make the world better. And we call it Christian love. Loving others becomes purely our effort and ours alone. That is why love can often feel burdensome when it is not reciprocated. This is the problem we see in so many marriages, including those among Catholics. They view the love that they have for each other is purely a commitment they made during the wedding ceremony, not realising that there is a necessary third party to the marriage, One who cements the indissoluble bond between them - it is God. God’s love completes the marriage and brings it to fulfilment.
The second part of the commandment resembles the first precisely because it is an overflow of the first. When the heart is fixed on God—when we love Him with everything we are—then the neighbour is no longer a project or a cause or a way of feeling virtuous about ourselves. The neighbour becomes someone who belongs to the God we love. We see them with His eyes. We serve them with His heart. The love is no longer our own achievement; it is participation in the love that God Himself is.
That is the difference between Gospel love and the altruistic “love” of the do-gooder. The do-gooder acts from a sense of duty, or sympathy, or ideology, or the quiet satisfaction of being useful. All of that can produce real benefits. But it remains horizontal. It does not rise to God, and therefore it does not finally transform the one who gives or the one who receives. It can even become a subtle form of self-worship: I am the one who helps; I am the solution.
Gospel love is different. It begins on its knees. It begins with the confession that we ourselves are the ones who have been loved first—loved when we were strangers, when we were orphans of grace, when we had nothing to offer. Only from that place of having been claimed by God does our love for others become pure. It is no longer about proving our goodness; it is about allowing the goodness of God to pass through us. St Therese spoke of this love which “drove the members of the Church to action, that if this love were extinguished, the apostles would have proclaimed the Gospel no longer, the martyrs would have shed their blood no more”. Without such love, we would be an empty shell.
Saint Paul, writing to the Thessalonians in today’s second reading, shows us what this love looks like in practice. The believers there had received the Gospel “in spite of the great opposition,” and their joy in the Holy Spirit became a living witness. Their love was not a social programme; it was the fruit of having turned from idols to the living God and of waiting for His Son. Their neighbour-love was rooted in God-love, and therefore it had power.
So the tension remains, and it is healthy. If our love of God does not press us outward toward the neighbour, it is incomplete. If our love of neighbour is not continually drawn back into the love of God, it will eventually wither into activism or sentimentality. The two commandments stand together, the second resembles the first, because only when the heart is given wholly to God can it be given freely to others.
Today, then, let us ask for the grace to hold them in the right order. Let us love the Lord our God with everything we are—heart, soul, mind—and from that love, and never apart from it, let us love the neighbour He places before us. That is the whole Law. That is the Gospel. That is the only love that lasts or in the words of St Therese who found her true vocation in love: “that love is everything, that this same love embraces every time and every place. In one word, that love is everlasting.”
That is the difference between Gospel love and the altruistic “love” of the do-gooder. The do-gooder acts from a sense of duty, or sympathy, or ideology, or the quiet satisfaction of being useful. All of that can produce real benefits. But it remains horizontal. It does not rise to God, and therefore it does not finally transform the one who gives or the one who receives. It can even become a subtle form of self-worship: I am the one who helps; I am the solution.
Gospel love is different. It begins on its knees. It begins with the confession that we ourselves are the ones who have been loved first—loved when we were strangers, when we were orphans of grace, when we had nothing to offer. Only from that place of having been claimed by God does our love for others become pure. It is no longer about proving our goodness; it is about allowing the goodness of God to pass through us. St Therese spoke of this love which “drove the members of the Church to action, that if this love were extinguished, the apostles would have proclaimed the Gospel no longer, the martyrs would have shed their blood no more”. Without such love, we would be an empty shell.
Saint Paul, writing to the Thessalonians in today’s second reading, shows us what this love looks like in practice. The believers there had received the Gospel “in spite of the great opposition,” and their joy in the Holy Spirit became a living witness. Their love was not a social programme; it was the fruit of having turned from idols to the living God and of waiting for His Son. Their neighbour-love was rooted in God-love, and therefore it had power.
So the tension remains, and it is healthy. If our love of God does not press us outward toward the neighbour, it is incomplete. If our love of neighbour is not continually drawn back into the love of God, it will eventually wither into activism or sentimentality. The two commandments stand together, the second resembles the first, because only when the heart is given wholly to God can it be given freely to others.
Today, then, let us ask for the grace to hold them in the right order. Let us love the Lord our God with everything we are—heart, soul, mind—and from that love, and never apart from it, let us love the neighbour He places before us. That is the whole Law. That is the Gospel. That is the only love that lasts or in the words of St Therese who found her true vocation in love: “that love is everything, that this same love embraces every time and every place. In one word, that love is everlasting.”

