Commemoration
of All the Faithful Departed
Yesterday we remembered all the saints,
both named and unnamed. Today, we remember those who have passed from this life
with faith, hope and trust in the promise of eternal life. It is so much easier
to just simply believe that those in the second category automatically fall
into the first that is, all our departed loved ones are already in heaven and
enjoying beatific vision. But that is something we can only hope for and can
never be certain unless the Church definitively declares them saints, what we
call canonisation.
At the root of today’s commemoration is
the question: What happens to us when we die? If our belief is that death is
the end, then it doesn’t make any difference: there is nothing more. This, of
course, is not our belief as Catholics. We believe that the life of every
individual matters to God. We believe that there is life-after-death; we
believe in the Resurrection; we believe that when we die, the person we are
lives on; the person does not die; and we believe that this person will live
for all eternity, eventually with a resurrected body – just like our Lord Jesus
Christ.
Many of us here are carrying the memory of
a deceased spouse, parent, child, or best friend deep in our hearts. It is our
wish, it is our desire, it is our hope, and for some, it is even our belief,
that our loved ones are “in peace” in Heaven, as the Book of Wisdom so
comfortingly assures us. But the truth is that we do not know this for a fact.
Canonisation involves a long and stringent process of determining whether
someone is in heaven or not. But very often, at the time of the death of a
person, we can never come to that conclusion with absolute certainty. We should
avoid a widespread heresy that is so prevalent today, that hell does not exist
and presumes that basically everyone and anyone who dies somehow automatically
gets upgraded to heaven no matter what life they lived here on earth. If this
be the case than what we’re doing today at this Mass and what we do at every
funeral would be basically a big waste of time.
So, what is the proper attitude we should have
toward the salvation of those we know who have died? The first thing is that we
shouldn’t judge them. With our finite capacities, we cannot know what’s really
in another’s heart. We see appearances but only God sees the heart. In some
cases, we extend funerals even to those who commit suicide because we don’t
know what was in the person, that led to the decision. The only time we do
refuse funeral is when the person made it absolutely clear that he was doing it
for reasons contrary to the Catholic faith. On the other hand, we’re not to
judge people to be saints in heaven either. A person might seem to be a great
father or a loving mother, or a generous philanthropist, but we might not know
of their dark hidden secrets or ulterior motives. For that reason, we, as
Catholics, leave all the judging to God. And because we don’t know, we hope for
their salvation and we pray for their salvation.
That is why praying for the dead is so
important. When we say that we pray for the dead, we are ultimately saying that
we believe in this reality called purgatory. Unfortunately, there has been a
lot of misunderstanding concerning this doctrine. Some have thought that we “go”
to purgatory and then, we are judged as to whether we go to heaven or hell.
Others see this as a mini-hell for those who didn't quite make it all the way
into heaven. If purgatory is a mini-hell, it explains why so many people choose
to canonise the dead as if this was a quick “Get out of Jail” bonus card.
So what is purgatory? To begin with, let's
look at the word “purgatory” which comes from the old Latin word “purgare,”
which means “to cleanse” or “to purge.” So you can think of purgatory as a time
of cleansing or final purification in preparation to spend eternity in the
presence of God. Citing Pope Gregory the Great, the Catholic Church teaches
that “all who die in God’s grace, but still imperfectly purified, are indeed
assured of their eternal salvation; but after death they undergo purification,
so as to achieve the holiness necessary to enter the joy of heaven.” (CCC 1030)
The next question is why is purgatory
necessary? Can’t we just get to heaven as we all hope to one day? Well, the
Church teaches that to enter heaven, one must be completely attached to God and
radically detached from all sin and everything that is not of God. “Nothing
unclean shall enter heaven” (Rev. 21:27). There are many who do not live and
die with that type of purity of life and hence they need to be purified to
enter into the kingdom in which God is all in all. So what about people who say
a fundamental “yes” to God, but drag their feet, clinging to some “small” sins,
nursing some attachments to the evil that they’ve supposedly renounced? Purgatory is the process after death where
these attachments, the umbilical cord which binds people to the old world, are
cut so that people can be free to enter into the life to come. It is the hospital where the infection of sin
is eliminated. Purgatory is not a kind
of temporary hell. Hell is eternal separation from God, but purgatory
facilitates our eternal union with Him.
The next question which follows, did the
Church just make this all up? Is this teaching about praying for the dead and
purgatory unbiblical and just man-made? The answer is definitely no. The
teaching on purgatory and praying for the dead finds its source in scriptures. The
earliest Scriptural reference to prayers for the dead comes in the second book
of Maccabees. Since Protestants reject the idea of praying for the dead, this
book is not included in their canon (collection of books in the Bible). The
second book of Maccabees tells how Judas Maccabee, the Jewish leader, led his
troops into battle in 163 B.C. When the battle ended he directed that the
bodies of those Jews who had died be buried. As soldiers prepared their slain
comrades for burial, they discovered that each was wearing an amulet taken as
booty from a pagan Temple, a violation of the Law. So Judas and his soldiers
prayed that God would forgive their sins.
Second Maccabees tells us, very
succinctly, “It is a holy and wholesome thought to pray for the dead, that they
might be loosed from their sins” (2 Macc 12:45). The Catechism of the Catholic
Church says, “From the beginning the Church has honoured the memory of the dead
and offered prayers in suffrage for them, above all the Eucharistic sacrifice,
so that, thus purified, they may attain the beatific vision of God. The Church
also commends almsgiving, indulgences, and works of penance undertaken on
behalf of the dead” (CCC 1032). In God’s plan of salvation, our deeds of love
offered in union with Christ’s own sacrifice may help others. Christ calls us
to be co-redeemers with Him. Just as His passion, death and resurrection
brought salvation to the whole human race, so our deeds of love united to His,
by God’s own design, can help those who have gone before us. It is a spiritual
work of mercy.
Let’s be honest. The vast majority of us will not
go immediately to heaven after judgment because we’re not living as true saints
in this world but are regularly making compromises with our faith. And because
of this, the vast majority of people will need prayers after they die. We would
need a lot of prayers. So we need to take these things seriously – our funeral
liturgy is meant to worship God and beg His mercy for the dead and not an
opportunity to glorify or canonise the dead. We need to start offering masses
for the dead because there is no greater prayer, there is no greater sacrifice,
than the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass, which re-presents the Sacrifice of Our
Lord on Calvary. It’s time to visit the graves of our loved ones, not just to
remember them but to pray for them, not just once a year but as often as
possible. As St Ambrose of Milan taught us, “We loved them in life, let us not
forget them in death.”