Thirteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time Year A
Is it justifiable to defend unity at any costs? For many, keeping the
peace and maintaining unity should be the main priority of any group, community
or family. And if this is so, then we must be prepared to sacrifice our
personal preferences, values, and even the truth, to preserve the group’s
cohesiveness.
Today, our Lord challenges this belief. Group cohesion and communal
unity are important but they cannot be our ultimate goals. As Christians, our
ultimate goal is to grow deeper in our relationship with Christ and all other
relationships, no matter how good or praiseworthy, must ultimately be subject
to, and take its cue from this relationship with Christ.
Our Lord explains that His gospel will inevitably force us to choose and
this choice will be the cause of division. The proclamation of the kingdom will
cause division not because the message is divisive or hateful but because of
the ways people will receive it. Responses will vary from full and open
reception, to hostile rejection, and this will lead to discord - even hostility
- within families, communities and among friends. So, the “worthiness” of His disciples will be
tested. The “worthy” disciple does not love father, mother, son or daughter
more than Christ. That does not mean that we Christians should not love our
parents or family members. We should. But what our Lord is insisting here is
that loyalty to Him even before one’s family, is the hallmark of true
discipleship. The relationship offered to us in Christ is something which goes
further and deeper than even the very closest human relationship.
The gospel of Jesus is not only about an ethical way of life founded on
love and mercy, but it is above all about the person of Jesus Himself. We are
“Christians” not only because of our words and deeds, but because our entire
lives have been reshaped and transformed into “another Christ.” As St Paul in
today’s second reading tells us, “when we were baptised in Christ Jesus we were
baptised in His death; in other words, when we were baptised we went into the
tomb with Him and joined Him in death, so that as Christ was raised from the
dead by the Father’s glory, we too might live a new life.” Because we are
“joined” to Him in baptism, our Lord claims a special place in our lives, more
important than our dearest ones and biological kin. Being a disciple is not a
marginal aspect of my life, it is central.
If our relationship to Christ is what defines us, then our fate too is
ultimately intertwined with His. That is why the next test of our “worthiness”
is to be found in our willingness to take up the cross. “Anyone who does not
take his cross and follow in my footsteps is not worthy of me. Anyone who finds
his life will lose it; anyone who loses his life for my sake will find it.”
The idea of taking up a cross in today’s context has been sanitised and
trivialised. It is often used as a metaphor to describe bearing with life’s
daily burdens and inconveniences, like a long wait in traffic, being subjected
to the blistering heat, putting up with a difficult boss or spouse, enduring
aches and pains. This is so far from the reality of the cross which our Lord
had to endure. No, when Jesus says that the true disciple must “take up his
cross,” He is not merely calling for acceptance of life’s little inconveniences
and hardships. He is calling His disciples to give up everything, even their
lives if necessary, to follow Him.
The cross is a radical call to die to oneself. Taking up one’s cross or
denying oneself is not something optional to Christianity. In fact, it is the
defining action of Christianity. Denying self is not to be confused with
denying something to oneself, whether material things, food, pleasure, or
whatever. Wicked people often deny themselves many things in order to achieve
their selfish goals or conquer their enemies. What Jesus meant by self-denial
is far more radical than denying something to oneself. He meant that one must
say no to oneself. All man’s sin and self-destruction centers in self-love,
self-trust, and self-assertion. The cross means the opposite, it means “no” to
self and “yes” to God.
But self-denial is not without value. Our Lord promises His faithful
disciples, “If anyone gives so much as a cup of cold water to one of these
little ones because he is a disciple, then I tell you solemnly, he will most
certainly not lose his reward.” In this following of Christ, this union with
God, we will ultimately share in the reward which Christ has won for us. It is
true that now we must endure the trial of discipleship by having a share in His
cross but later we will have a share in His glory, as St Paul assures us, “What
we suffer in this life can never be compared to the glory, as yet unrevealed,
which is waiting for us.” (Rom 8:18)